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Trauma, PTSD & Complex Trauma

Reframe for 15 minute work-through

I Keep Having Nightmares About It

15 minute guided tool

No speech. No fake calm. Work with nightmares through one grounded move.

Tool fit

Reframe fits nightmares because the meaning around it can become heavier than the moment. Use a steady split: write what must wait until daylight and what needs action tonight.

IF

IF nightmares is happening right now and the trap is using bedtime as a courtroom for every fear and unfinished task

THEN

  1. Start with nightmares, not the whole backstory.
  2. move the problem out of your head and onto paper, then lower stimulation
  3. Do this clean move before deciding what the whole situation means: make the next hour about settling, not solving.
  4. Stay with nightmares long enough to notice what shifted after the first move.
  5. Choose one next action that matches the clean move: make the next hour about settling, not solving.
  6. Pick one sensory reset: cool water on hands, focus on one object, step into different light, or change rooms.
  7. If this is increasing pressure instead of lowering it, stop here. Switch paths, step away from the tool, or use real-world support.

WHY

This works because sleep anxiety grows when the brain treats rest as a threat window. A steady reframe uses write what must wait until daylight and what needs action tonight so the trap does not become the instruction.

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