Mentorship Without Control

Purpose
Direct answer to: “How do I deal with my adult son's struggles?”.

How to apply Mentorship Without Control

1. Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2. Pick the smallest concrete action (2–10 minutes).
3. Do it now; log one line about what you did and how it felt.
4. Repeat daily for a week; adjust based on the review.

How & Why It Works

• Repair scripts and structured listening reduce defensiveness and improve connection.

Results & Goals

• Fewer arguments; faster repair after conflicts.
• More consistent follow‑through on small commitments.
• Visible progress that rebuilds mutual trust and respect.

References

• Gottman — Repair & ATTUNE
• Beck (2011) — CBT Basics & Beyond
• Hayes et al. — Acceptance & Commitment Therapy
• CDC — Parent Engagement in Schools