"Good Enough" Mantra

Purpose / Reason
Daily affirm: "I am good enough, exactly as I am."

How to Apply

1. Define the smallest next action (≤10 minutes).
2. Do it now or calendar it today with a cue.
3. Note one observation about what helped or got in the way.
4. Repeat for 5–7 days; keep/cut/change one element next week.

How & Why It Works

• Tiny, repeatable actions compound into confidence and identity change via reinforcement learning.

Results & Goals

• Immediate (0–72h): Reduced shame spikes; clearer next steps; a small self‑kind action completed.
• Short‑term (1–4 weeks): Fewer rumination loops; more honest connection; boundaries that protect energy; evidence of values‑aligned actions.
• Medium‑term (1–3 months): Lower baseline self‑criticism; stable habits that express identity; greater resilience when mistakes happen.

Citations / References

• Kristin Neff — Self‑Compassion Research & Practices
• Paul Gilbert — Compassion‑Focused Therapy (CFT)
• Brené Brown — Shame & Vulnerability (TED Talk & research)
• APA — Shame & Guilt Overview
• Beck Institute — What is CBT?
• ACBS — Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT)
• Linehan Institute — DBT Skills