How do I address the underlying issues that led to addiction?
The Accountability Partner Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with boredom in sobriety?”
How to apply The Accountability Partner Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Rebuilding Trust Tool (for Couples)
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I find a new support system?”
How to apply The Rebuilding Trust Tool (for Couples)
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Clear boundaries and structured communication increase safety and predictability in
relationships.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Physical Well-being Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I address the underlying issues that led to addiction?”
How to apply The Physical Well-being Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Physiological regulation widens the window of tolerance and stabilizes mood.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I bounce back after a slip to avoid full relapse?
The Patience & Persistence Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I fix sleep problems in recovery?”
How to apply The Patience & Persistence Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Creative Expression Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I combine medication-assisted treatment (MAT) with tools?”
How to apply The Creative Expression Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Self-Compassion for Partners Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I bounce back after a slip to avoid full relapse?”
How to apply The Self-Compassion for Partners Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I build a new life without my addiction?
The Relapse Prevention Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I support my partner’s recovery without enabling them?”
How to apply The Relapse Prevention Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Emotional Regulation Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with the anger and resentment from my partner?”
How to apply The Emotional Regulation Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Self-Forgiveness Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I build a new life without my addiction?”
How to apply The Self-Forgiveness Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I combine medication-assisted treatment (MAT) with tools?
The Service & Contribution Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I travel without relapsing?”
How to apply The Service & Contribution Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Patience & Persistence Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I fix sleep problems in recovery?”
How to apply The Patience & Persistence Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Creative Expression Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I combine medication-assisted treatment (MAT) with tools?”
How to apply The Creative Expression Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I date or return to intimacy in early recovery?
The Self-Discovery & Identity Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I maintain long-term sobriety?”
How to apply The Self-Discovery & Identity Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Gratitude Practice Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I handle holidays and special occasions without using?”
The Gratitude Practice Tool (Routine)
Daily:
- 2–10 minutes of the core action
- 1 sentence log (what you did / how it felt)
Weekly:
- Review your log; keep, cut, or change one step.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Trauma-Informed Recovery Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I date or return to intimacy in early recovery?”
How to apply The Trauma-Informed Recovery Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I deal with boredom in sobriety?
The Self-Forgiveness Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I build a new life without my addiction?”
How to apply The Self-Forgiveness Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Purpose & Meaning Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage triggers and cravings in social situations?”
How to apply The Purpose & Meaning Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Accountability Partner Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with boredom in sobriety?”
How to apply The Accountability Partner Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I deal with digital triggers (social media, porn, gambling)?
The Self-Compassion for Partners Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I bounce back after a slip to avoid full relapse?”
How to apply The Self-Compassion for Partners Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Future-Proofing Recovery Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild daily routines that support sobriety?”
How to apply The Future-Proofing Recovery Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Radical Honesty Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I stop craving my addiction?”
How to apply The Radical Honesty Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I deal with financial consequences of addiction?
The Physical Well-being Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I address the underlying issues that led to addiction?”
How to apply The Physical Well-being Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Physiological regulation widens the window of tolerance and stabilizes mood.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Spiritual Connection Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage stress without using substances?”
The Spiritual Connection Tool (Routine)
Daily:
- 2–10 minutes of the core action
- 1 sentence log (what you did / how it felt)
Weekly:
- Review your log; keep, cut, or change one step.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Boundary Setting Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with financial consequences of addiction?”
How to apply The Boundary Setting Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Clear boundaries and structured communication increase safety and predictability in
relationships.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I deal with loneliness in recovery?
The Healthy Relationships Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage anger and resentment towards others?”
How to apply The Healthy Relationships Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Clear boundaries and structured communication increase safety and predictability in
relationships.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Financial Recovery Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I improve communication in my relationship?”
How to apply The Financial Recovery Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Skill Building Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with loneliness in recovery?”
How to apply The Skill Building Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I deal with post-acute withdrawal syndrome (PAWS)?
The Triggers & Cravings Management Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I improve my physical health in recovery?”
How to apply The Triggers & Cravings Management Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Self-Sabotage Interruption Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I find joy in sobriety?”
How to apply The Self-Sabotage Interruption Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Healthy Pleasure Discovery Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with post-acute withdrawal syndrome (PAWS)?”
How to apply The Healthy Pleasure Discovery Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I deal with relapse and shame?
The Immediate Action Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I stop craving my addiction?”
How to apply The Immediate Action Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Replacement Habits Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I stop craving my addiction?”
How to apply The Replacement Habits Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Behavioral activation and repetition build momentum and self-efficacy.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Partner Empowerment Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with relapse and shame?”
How to apply The Partner Empowerment Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I deal with shame and guilt from my past?
The Anger Release Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I explain my addiction to my children?”
How to apply The Anger Release Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Shame & Guilt Processing Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I handle social pressure to use?”
How to apply The Shame & Guilt Processing Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Resentment Release Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with shame and guilt from my past?”
How to apply The Resentment Release Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I deal with the anger and resentment from my partner?
The Trigger Mapping Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I forgive myself for what I’ve done?”
The Trigger Mapping Tool (Plan)
1) Define the goal for this week.
2) List 3 constraints (time/energy/people).
3) Choose the smallest daily action (≤10 min).
4) Schedule it.
5) Review on the same day next week.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Relapse Prevention Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I support my partner’s recovery without enabling them?”
How to apply The Relapse Prevention Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Emotional Regulation Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with the anger and resentment from my partner?”
How to apply The Emotional Regulation Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I explain my addiction to my children?
The Boundary Setting Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with financial consequences of addiction?”
How to apply The Boundary Setting Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Clear boundaries and structured communication increase safety and predictability in
relationships.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Self-Care & Nurturing Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild my career/professional life?”
How to apply The Self-Care & Nurturing Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Anger Release Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I explain my addiction to my children?”
How to apply The Anger Release Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I find a new support system?
The Purpose & Meaning Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage triggers and cravings in social situations?”
How to apply The Purpose & Meaning Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Accountability Partner Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with boredom in sobriety?”
How to apply The Accountability Partner Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Rebuilding Trust Tool (for Couples)
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I find a new support system?”
How to apply The Rebuilding Trust Tool (for Couples)
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Clear boundaries and structured communication increase safety and predictability in
relationships.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I find joy in sobriety?
The Future Visioning Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage cravings when I’m alone?”
How to apply The Future Visioning Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Triggers & Cravings Management Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I improve my physical health in recovery?”
How to apply The Triggers & Cravings Management Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Self-Sabotage Interruption Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I find joy in sobriety?”
How to apply The Self-Sabotage Interruption Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I fix sleep problems in recovery?
The Goal Setting & Achievement Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage recovery at work (stress, HR, disclosure)?”
How to apply The Goal Setting & Achievement Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Implementation intentions pre-bind cue→action, reducing choice paralysis under stress.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Service & Contribution Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I travel without relapsing?”
How to apply The Service & Contribution Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Patience & Persistence Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I fix sleep problems in recovery?”
How to apply The Patience & Persistence Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I forgive myself for what I’ve done?
The Partner Empowerment Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with relapse and shame?”
How to apply The Partner Empowerment Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Communication Rebuild Tool (for Couples)
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild trust with my partner after addiction?”
How to apply The Communication Rebuild Tool (for Couples)
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Clear boundaries and structured communication increase safety and predictability in
relationships.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Trigger Mapping Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I forgive myself for what I’ve done?”
The Trigger Mapping Tool (Plan)
1) Define the goal for this week.
2) List 3 constraints (time/energy/people).
3) Choose the smallest daily action (≤10 min).
4) Schedule it.
5) Review on the same day next week.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I handle financial stress in recovery?
The Skill Building Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with loneliness in recovery?”
How to apply The Skill Building Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Cognitive Restructuring Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild family relationships?”
How to apply The Cognitive Restructuring Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- CBT cognitive restructuring reduces distorted thoughts and lowers emotional reactivity.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Mindfulness & Meditation Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I handle financial stress in recovery?”
How to apply The Mindfulness & Meditation Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Mindfulness/MBRP builds decentering and reduces cue reactivity over time.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I handle holidays and special occasions without using?
The Relapse Review Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage mental health issues alongside addiction recovery?”
How to apply The Relapse Review Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Self-Discovery & Identity Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I maintain long-term sobriety?”
How to apply The Self-Discovery & Identity Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Gratitude Practice Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I handle holidays and special occasions without using?”
The Gratitude Practice Tool (Routine)
Daily:
- 2–10 minutes of the core action
- 1 sentence log (what you did / how it felt)
Weekly:
- Review your log; keep, cut, or change one step.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I handle social pressure to use?
The Self-Care & Nurturing Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild my career/professional life?”
How to apply The Self-Care & Nurturing Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Anger Release Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I explain my addiction to my children?”
How to apply The Anger Release Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Shame & Guilt Processing Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I handle social pressure to use?”
How to apply The Shame & Guilt Processing Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I handle triggers from old friends/environments?
The Healthy Pleasure Discovery Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with post-acute withdrawal syndrome (PAWS)?”
How to apply The Healthy Pleasure Discovery Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Stress Management Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild my self-esteem?”
How to apply The Stress Management Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Forgiveness of Others Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I handle triggers from old friends/environments?”
How to apply The Forgiveness of Others Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I improve communication in my relationship?
The Forgiveness of Others Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I handle triggers from old friends/environments?”
How to apply The Forgiveness of Others Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Healthy Relationships Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage anger and resentment towards others?”
How to apply The Healthy Relationships Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Clear boundaries and structured communication increase safety and predictability in
relationships.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Financial Recovery Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I improve communication in my relationship?”
How to apply The Financial Recovery Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I improve my physical health in recovery?
The Resentment Release Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with shame and guilt from my past?”
How to apply The Resentment Release Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Future Visioning Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage cravings when I’m alone?”
How to apply The Future Visioning Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Triggers & Cravings Management Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I improve my physical health in recovery?”
How to apply The Triggers & Cravings Management Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I maintain long-term sobriety?
The Mindfulness & Meditation Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I handle financial stress in recovery?”
How to apply The Mindfulness & Meditation Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Mindfulness/MBRP builds decentering and reduces cue reactivity over time.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Relapse Review Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage mental health issues alongside addiction recovery?”
How to apply The Relapse Review Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Self-Discovery & Identity Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I maintain long-term sobriety?”
How to apply The Self-Discovery & Identity Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I manage anger and resentment towards others?
The Stress Management Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild my self-esteem?”
How to apply The Stress Management Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Forgiveness of Others Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I handle triggers from old friends/environments?”
How to apply The Forgiveness of Others Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Healthy Relationships Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage anger and resentment towards others?”
How to apply The Healthy Relationships Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Clear boundaries and structured communication increase safety and predictability in
relationships.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I manage cravings when I’m alone?
The Shame & Guilt Processing Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I handle social pressure to use?”
How to apply The Shame & Guilt Processing Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Resentment Release Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with shame and guilt from my past?”
How to apply The Resentment Release Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Future Visioning Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage cravings when I’m alone?”
How to apply The Future Visioning Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I manage mental health issues alongside addiction recovery?
The Cognitive Restructuring Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild family relationships?”
How to apply The Cognitive Restructuring Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- CBT cognitive restructuring reduces distorted thoughts and lowers emotional reactivity.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Mindfulness & Meditation Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I handle financial stress in recovery?”
How to apply The Mindfulness & Meditation Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Mindfulness/MBRP builds decentering and reduces cue reactivity over time.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Relapse Review Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage mental health issues alongside addiction recovery?”
How to apply The Relapse Review Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I manage recovery at work (stress, HR, disclosure)?
The Gratitude Practice Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I handle holidays and special occasions without using?”
The Gratitude Practice Tool (Routine)
Daily:
- 2–10 minutes of the core action
- 1 sentence log (what you did / how it felt)
Weekly:
- Review your log; keep, cut, or change one step.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Trauma-Informed Recovery Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I date or return to intimacy in early recovery?”
How to apply The Trauma-Informed Recovery Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Goal Setting & Achievement Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage recovery at work (stress, HR, disclosure)?”
How to apply The Goal Setting & Achievement Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Implementation intentions pre-bind cue→action, reducing choice paralysis under stress.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I manage stress without using substances?
The Rebuilding Trust Tool (for Couples)
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I find a new support system?”
How to apply The Rebuilding Trust Tool (for Couples)
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Clear boundaries and structured communication increase safety and predictability in
relationships.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Physical Well-being Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I address the underlying issues that led to addiction?”
How to apply The Physical Well-being Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Physiological regulation widens the window of tolerance and stabilizes mood.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Spiritual Connection Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage stress without using substances?”
The Spiritual Connection Tool (Routine)
Daily:
- 2–10 minutes of the core action
- 1 sentence log (what you did / how it felt)
Weekly:
- Review your log; keep, cut, or change one step.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I manage triggers and cravings in social situations?
The Emotional Regulation Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with the anger and resentment from my partner?”
How to apply The Emotional Regulation Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Self-Forgiveness Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I build a new life without my addiction?”
How to apply The Self-Forgiveness Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Purpose & Meaning Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage triggers and cravings in social situations?”
How to apply The Purpose & Meaning Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I rebuild daily routines that support sobriety?
The Creative Expression Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I combine medication-assisted treatment (MAT) with tools?”
How to apply The Creative Expression Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Self-Compassion for Partners Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I bounce back after a slip to avoid full relapse?”
How to apply The Self-Compassion for Partners Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Future-Proofing Recovery Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild daily routines that support sobriety?”
How to apply The Future-Proofing Recovery Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I rebuild family relationships?
The Financial Recovery Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I improve communication in my relationship?”
How to apply The Financial Recovery Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Skill Building Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with loneliness in recovery?”
How to apply The Skill Building Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Cognitive Restructuring Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild family relationships?”
How to apply The Cognitive Restructuring Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- CBT cognitive restructuring reduces distorted thoughts and lowers emotional reactivity.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I rebuild my career/professional life?
The Spiritual Connection Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage stress without using substances?”
The Spiritual Connection Tool (Routine)
Daily:
- 2–10 minutes of the core action
- 1 sentence log (what you did / how it felt)
Weekly:
- Review your log; keep, cut, or change one step.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Boundary Setting Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with financial consequences of addiction?”
How to apply The Boundary Setting Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Clear boundaries and structured communication increase safety and predictability in
relationships.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Self-Care & Nurturing Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild my career/professional life?”
How to apply The Self-Care & Nurturing Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I rebuild my self-esteem?
The Self-Sabotage Interruption Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I find joy in sobriety?”
How to apply The Self-Sabotage Interruption Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Healthy Pleasure Discovery Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with post-acute withdrawal syndrome (PAWS)?”
How to apply The Healthy Pleasure Discovery Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Stress Management Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild my self-esteem?”
How to apply The Stress Management Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I rebuild trust with my partner after addiction?
The Replacement Habits Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I stop craving my addiction?”
How to apply The Replacement Habits Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Behavioral activation and repetition build momentum and self-efficacy.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Partner Empowerment Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I deal with relapse and shame?”
How to apply The Partner Empowerment Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Communication Rebuild Tool (for Couples)
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild trust with my partner after addiction?”
How to apply The Communication Rebuild Tool (for Couples)
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Clear boundaries and structured communication increase safety and predictability in
relationships.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I stop craving my addiction?
The Radical Honesty Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I stop craving my addiction?”
How to apply The Radical Honesty Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Immediate Action Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I stop craving my addiction?”
How to apply The Immediate Action Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Replacement Habits Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I stop craving my addiction?”
How to apply The Replacement Habits Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Behavioral activation and repetition build momentum and self-efficacy.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I support a friend in recovery without losing myself?
The Future-Proofing Recovery Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild daily routines that support sobriety?”
How to apply The Future-Proofing Recovery Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Radical Honesty Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I stop craving my addiction?”
How to apply The Radical Honesty Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Immediate Action Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I stop craving my addiction?”
How to apply The Immediate Action Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I support my partner’s recovery without enabling them?
The Communication Rebuild Tool (for Couples)
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I rebuild trust with my partner after addiction?”
How to apply The Communication Rebuild Tool (for Couples)
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Clear boundaries and structured communication increase safety and predictability in
relationships.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Trigger Mapping Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I forgive myself for what I’ve done?”
The Trigger Mapping Tool (Plan)
1) Define the goal for this week.
2) List 3 constraints (time/energy/people).
3) Choose the smallest daily action (≤10 min).
4) Schedule it.
5) Review on the same day next week.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Relapse Prevention Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I support my partner’s recovery without enabling them?”
How to apply The Relapse Prevention Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
How do I travel without relapsing?
The Trauma-Informed Recovery Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I date or return to intimacy in early recovery?”
How to apply The Trauma-Informed Recovery Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Goal Setting & Achievement Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I manage recovery at work (stress, HR, disclosure)?”
How to apply The Goal Setting & Achievement Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Implementation intentions pre-bind cue→action, reducing choice paralysis under stress.
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance
The Service & Contribution Tool
Purpose
Answer to: “How do I travel without relapsing?”
How to apply The Service & Contribution Tool
1) Clarify the problem in one sentence.
2) Pick the smallest action that fits in 2–10 minutes.
3) Do it now; start a one-line log.
4) Repeat daily for a week; adjust after review.
How & Why It Works
- Relapse prevention targets antecedent–behavior–consequence chains and rehearses
alternative
responses.
Origin: Relapse prevention + CBT/ACT + MBRP + lived experience;
immediate-action drills and AAR structure.
References: Marlatt & Donovan (2005) Relapse Prevention; Beck
(2011) CBT: Basics and Beyond; Bowen et al. (2011) Mindfulness-Based Relapse Prevention;
Gollwitzer (1999) Implementation Intentions; NIDA/SAMHSA recovery guidance